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Wedding Customs and Traditions in China


Ever since ancient China, there has been a saying that the three most delightful moments in one's life come with success in the imperial examination, marriage and the birth of a son. A marriage would be decided not by a young couple's love, but by their parents' desires. Due to the vast expanse and long history, there are different customs to follow in different places, although they are generally the same. We can still witness traditional marriages in the countryside.

In the ancient times, it was very important to follow a basic principle of Three Letters and Six Etiquettes. The three letters were the betrothal letter, the gift letter with a gifts list and the wedding letter used on the day the bridegroom met his bride at her home.

1. The betrothal letter confirms the formal arrangement of a marriage and is sent by the groom's family to the bride's family. This letter usually accompanies the initial gifts for the bride's family.

2. The gift letter accompanies a gifts list and the formal gifts for the Bride's family. In actuality it is a gift registry which records and describes the value of the gifts.

3. Wedding letter is given to the bride's family on the actual wedding day. It is a confirmation of the act of bringing the bride into the groom's family.

Six etiquettes (traditional steps to the wedding process) go through the whole process of the wedding ceremony, which are:

1. Proposing This process will be practiced by a match-maker. When a boy's parents intended to make a match, they would invite a matchmaker to propose with them at the girl's home. The matchmaker will formally present his or her client's request to the identified girl's parents. Many unmarried young people could not see and were unfamiliar with each other till their wedding day.

2. Birthday Matching If the potential bride's parents agree to the marriage, the match-maker will request for the girl's full name, birth date and birth hour, to ask a fortune-teller to predict whether that could match the boy's. If the couple's names, birth dates and birth hours do not conflict, the marriage will move on to the next step. Otherwise, the proposed marriage stops.

3. Presenting Betrothal Gifts Once the match is predicted to be auspicious, the bridegroom's family will then arrange the matchmaker to present betrothal gifts, enclosing the betrothal letter, to the bride's family.

4. Presenting Wedding Gifts After the betrothal letter and gifts are accepted, the bridegroom's family will send prolific gifts to the girl's family, symbolizing respect and kindness towards the girl's family as well as the capability of providing a good life for the girl.

5. Selecting a Wedding Date A fortune-teller will be consulted to select an auspicious date to hold the wedding ceremony.

6. Wedding Ceremony This is of course the most important step of the wedding. On the selected day, firecrackers, gongs and drums signaled the start of the procession, led by the groom. Accompanying the groom was a child, omen of future sons, the bridal sedan chair, attendants with lanterns and banners, musicians, and a "dancing" lion or unicorn. The bride is carried on her back to the sedan chair. The chair was heavily curtained to prevent the bride from seeing anything which could be unlucky. After the bride is escorted to the bridegroom's home, the wedding ceremony begins.

The wedding ceremony itself was simple. The bride and bridegroom are led to the family altar, where the couple pays kowtows to Heaven and Earth, parents and each other successively. The ceremony proceeds under a director's prompts and applauses of the audience.

Then there will be a grand feast for relatives and those who help in the wedding. The newlywed couple will resume drinking wedlock wine. Generally they are required to cross their arms to sip the wine and then exchange their cups to gulp down. They also will toast with guests to pay their thanks.

Then they will be led to the bridal chamber. "Rowdy" friends and relatives came along to tease the young couple and play tricks on the groom. Those funny and silly games will ease the tension, since in ancient times the newlyweds never met each other before the wedding! The festive atmosphere also promotes closeness among all the family members and the Community beyond.

Traditionally, the newlyweds are to return to visit the bride's parents one or three days after the wedding. They will be hailed with a banquet.

Traditional wedding customs being so complicated, it is not surprising that etiquette was changed and simplified. But the core remained. The primary objectives of wedding customs were to uphold the concepts of joining and enhancing the two families and ensuring succession with numerous descendants. Reverence to parents and ancestors, omens to encourage fertility and wealth, financial and social obligations contracted by both families at the betrothal, extensive gift giving etiquette, and the bride's incorporation into her husband's family are recurring elements which have survived time and change.

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The China Tea Tour


China is the homeland of Chinese tea. Tea from China, along with silk and porcelain, became known to the world over a thousand years ago and is today one of China's most valuable exports. The Japanese adopted the habit of drinking tea in the 6th century, but it was not introduced to Europe and America until the 17th and 18th centuries.

According to legend, in 2737 BC, the Chinese emperor Shen Nung was sitting beneath a tree, while his servant boiled drinking water, when some leaves from the tree blew into the water. It is impossible to know whether there is any truth in this story, but drinking tea has been a part of Chinese culture for many centuries. In 800 A.D. a writer named Lu Yu, known as the tea sage, wrote the Tea Classic. It was shortly after this that tea was first introduced to Japan by Japanese Buddhist monks who had traveled to China to study.

People throughout China drink tea daily because of its healthful properties. Various kinds of tea are grown in the vastly differing geographic locations and climatesof China. Chinese teas generally fit into five classifications.

Green Tea
Green tea is a very lightly fermented (dried) tea that keeps its original color during processing. This category consists mainly of Longjing tea of Zhejiang Province, Maofeng of Huangshan Mountain in Anhui Province and Biluochun produced in Jiangsu.

Note: The term fermentation when applied to tea is something of a misnomer, as the term actually refers to how much a tea is allowed to dry. The drying may be stopped byeither pan frying, baking or steaming the leaves before they are completely dried.

Black Tea
Black tea, known as red tea (Hong Cha) in China, is fermented before baking. It is a later variety developed from green tea. The best brands of black tea are Qihong of Anhui, Dianhong of Yunnan Suhong of Jiangsu, Chuanhong of Sichuan and Huhong of Hunan

Wulong Tea
This is a variety between the green and black teas, and is partially fermented. It is a specialty from the provinces on China's southeast coast, Fujian Guangdong and Taiwan.

Compressed Tea
This tea is compressed and hardenedintoshapes, usually a brick,but sometimes formed into cakes or shaped into a bowl. It is easy to transport and store and is mainly used by the ethnic minority peoples. Compressed tea is black in color, and is known as "black tea" or "brick tea". It is mainly produced in Hubei, Hunan, Sichuan and Yunnan provinces.

Scented Tea
This kind of tea is processed by mixing fragrant flowers with tea leaves. The flowers most commonly used for this purpose are jasmine and magnolia. Jasmine tea is a well-known favorite with residents of northern China and with a growing number of foreigners.

Chinese people believe a good cup of tea is made from a combination of high quality tea leaves and water, brewed in fine tea ware. Normally, the finest tea is grown at altitudes of 3,000 to 7,000 feet (910 to 2,124m). Pure, sweet water, whether from a spring or rain and snow water, is the best for making tea. The most favorable tea ware is purple clay pottery made in the Yixing Area (Jiangsu province), and porcelain wares from Jingdezhen (Jiangxi province).

The tea ceremony, with its four basic principles of harmony, respect, purity, and tranquility, plays an important part in Chinese life. It is a way to focus mental energies, relax, and enjoy an ancient tradition. Serving Chinese tea is done in such a way to show courtesy and respect to a guest, and tea is offered immediately to a guest in a Chinese home. There are many customs associated with the tea ceremony, but no matter the style used in serving, it is always done in a way to show consideration and respect to the guest, and emphasize the beauty and symbolism of the service.

Here is a China Tea tour designed to capture the essence China's tea culture combined with rich natural and cultural attractions. You will visit regions of China famous for Oolong and Dragon Well green tea as well as tour historic sites in Beijing and Shanghai.

Day 1 Arrive in Beijing


Depart on your flight bound for Beijing, the capital of People's Republic of China. Upon your arrival, you will be met and transferred to the hotel.

Day 2: Beijing


Full-day tour will begin at the magnificent Forbidden City, home to emperors for over 500-years. Strolling through Tiananmen Square, which is the largest square in the world. Continue to witness the splendor of the Summer Palace,built as a royal garden for Qing Dynasty Emperors. This evening, you are invited to a Peking duck banquet.

Day 3: Beijing


A full-day tour will take in the grandeur of the Eighth Wonder of the World, the Great Wall, built more than 2000 years ago to protect China from northern invaders. On the way back to Beijing stop and visit the sacred Ming Tombs, where 13 emperors of Ming Dynasty were buried. Enjoy a spectacular Chinese Kongfu performance in the evening.

Day 4: Beijing


Visit the famous Beihai Park and walk leisurely through the old Hutong area. Tonight you are invited to enjoy the local cultural performances at Lao She Teahouse.

Day 5: Beijing - Wuyi Mountain


After breakfast, admire the beauty of The Temple of Heaven where the Chinese emperors prayed for good harvest in ancient days. Enjoy shopping in the Wangfujing Street. Transfer to the airport and fly to Wuyi Mountain, the birthplace of Oolong Tea. Arrival and check in the local hotel.

Day 6: Wuyi Mountain


Enjoy the tour to the famous "Thread in the Sky" crevasse, the "Cloud's Lair" mountain over-look and the secluded Ming Dynasty "Rock Tea" garden known as Da Hong Pao ("Big Red Robe"). The highlights of our trip also include the visit to the local Oolong Tea gardens and bamboo rafting through the amazing rock formations along the banks of the Nine-Bends River.

Day 7: Wuyi Mountain


Today you will visit the tea hill where you will pick tea leaves and taste the fresh local tea.

Day 8: Wuyi Mountain - Fuzhou


You will be transferred to the airport and fly to Fuzhou, the capital of Fujian Province. Arrival and visit the famous Yong Quan Temple (Gushing Spring Temple). Check in the local hotel tonight.

Day 9: Fuzhou - Hangzhou


Continue your trip to the hometown of the most famous Dragon Well Tea, Hangzhou. Arrival and visit the local tea farming village where you will follow the traditional frying tea process to choose and fry tea leaves yourself! Check in the local hotel tonight.

Day 10: Hangzhou


Relax on a wonderful cruise of China's most famous Lake, West Lake; it is symbol of Hangzhou as well as one of the most beautiful sights in China. Then visit the Six Harmonies Pagoda. Ascending to the top of the pagoda and looking down, you will have a panoramic view of the beauty of the Qiantang River, feeling as if "standing above the highest level of the sky".

Day 11: Hangzhou / Shanghai


In this morning, you will travel to Shanghai, the biggest city of China. Arrival and visit the Yuyuan Garden surrounded by the vast numbers of the shops, rest up at the local Tea House. Check in your hotel in the evening.

Day 12: Shanghai

Visit the world famous waterfront - The Bund. It was once part of the foreign concessions and out-of-bounds to locals. Then explore the magnificent Nanjing Road and the Jade Buddha Temple that is famous for its Jade Buddha. After dinner, proceed for a city tour to Pudong New District - Shanghai's main financial district and enjoy a scenic night cruise on Huangpu River.

Day 13: Depart

Today you will be transferred to the airport for your homeward flight and complete the most exciting China tea tour.


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